31.1.11

Break

I can't wait. Not for the reunion dinner. Nor cny. No visiting this year as we r still observing the 100days of grieving for grandma. I do miss her. Fact that my current place is so much nearer to her place, I do think of her when I go to that area. I tink I shld make an effort to visit my other grandma whom I'm closer to. Bt I can't help it coz I really don wish to stay ard in Sg during cnys. Not last yr, not this, not the next few yrs too. Hmmm.

Family aside. Cny is abt food. N getting fat. N mayb even sick. I hope not tho. Thankfully I still hav someone at home to share these goodies the cols gave.


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24.1.11

My hearty breakfast




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21.1.11

Anything can happen

There isn't a dedicated bus to bring us to and from work usually. Diff buses and diff drivers mostly. At $60 per month for one-way, we have to tolerate with it being late (even an hr!), not showing up, and also look at the condition of this one. This has been picking us to work in its lousy condition for at least the past 2 months. The best tin they can do is to designate this particular one. Being run-down is one thing. Smelly, another. Now it has to breakdown on tpe! Best! N these china drivers. What to say about them? Attitude and all.


But because of the convenience it offers to take us straight into the ulu office, we have to bear w these inconveniences. Like even in the worst case if it has to break down once a week. Grrrrr. Ok, still, tgif!

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20.1.11

New skin.. I like...




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19.1.11

Love yourself, more.




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18.1.11

Inspired

Time to eat healthy again. Cut down on bee Hoon and stuff. Say no to alcohol. Start exercising again. I need more time!


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17.1.11

一个人




It's been more than a month since moving out. Saw mom twice. Once at the rented place. Another when I went back 'home'. Still trying to detach myself from the feelings I get when I look at the scene of the family communicating from where I sat. It feels like I'm watching a chn 8 family drama which, I'm not part of, sadly. N I'm speechless. You see why it is better not to see them at all. Because the nx mrg when I wake I wld tink that tdy I'm returning home to the parents but no, the default now isn't so.

If you have been asking how's life now and you get the standard reply from me, pls understd that I am trying my best alrdy. Things are not as bad as people wld think. It's sad. I know. But it's getting better, I believe.

God is closer. Some friends are closer. I shld be thankful alrdy. If you have learnt being happy alone, I will try to too.

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15.1.11

梅酒加咖啡




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14.1.11

Do it with LOVE

Godly Goals Are Motivated by Love
by Rick Warren

Let love be your highest goal. 1 Corinthians 14:1a (NLT)
"Everything you do must be done with love." 1 Corinthians 16:14 (NLT)

God is more interested in why you do what you do than what you do. Godly goals -- the kind God will bless -- must be motivated by love.

People can be motivated by many things when they set goals -- peer pressure; guilt, greed, materialism, revenge, pride, envy, or jealousy. But God will only bless goals that are motivated by love.

The Bible says everything you do must be done with love. So every goal you set should be for God’s glory, and every goal you set must be motivated by love. The Bible says, “Everything you do must be done with love.” (1 Corinthians 16:14 NLT)

The love that motivates us can be our love for Jesus or our love for other people. That's called the Great Commandment: Love God with all your heart and love your neighbor as yourself. When a goal moves you to love God more or love other people more, then God will get behind that goal.

The Bible says, “No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us.” (1 John 4:12 NLT)

Otherwise, if you set goals without love, then people become tools in your life and you stop seeing them as human beings; instead, you see them as projects and that keeps you from learning how to love. God wants us to spend our time on earth learning how to love him and to love others.


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I miss u but...





Out of sight, out of mind.

And distance does make the <3 grow fonder. But it is okay not to do anything about it. In fact, better not. I am not good at it. We are all not.

Not a 12hr/day workweek but still dead tired. I need more energy!!

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13.1.11

58..hmmm..




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12.1.11

Test

If it has fingers, it will say ***k u! Arghhhhhh!


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