fridays are always shitty becoz of some shitty bank. yea. sounds like it huh.

*breathe in deep*

aniwae. wanted to blog this down since.. beginning of the month? after reading n hearing wat ser's pt of view.

the basis of love/relnship should be God. not passion. nor feelings. nor lust. i have been pondering over it for quite some time. wat does it actuali mean.

n i was reminded of the equilateral triangle relnship. not the normal kind of 三角关系. i was taught abt this few years back in church during some camp i tink.

God is at the top end of the triangle. man n woman is at the bottom two ends.

As man/woman's distance from God narrows, the two slanting sides of the triangle shortens, hence bringing the man n woman closer tog. however, it doesnt work in the opposite way. if the man n woman got closer without getting closer to Him, the equilateral triangle becomes an isosceles triangle.

simply, it means.. in a relnship, with God, it is impt to let him be the basis, the foundation of it. u don start one based on special feelings/chemistry.. or passion.. coz they fade away over time.

this world is not perfect. doesnt mean a christian relnship will make tins easy. i tink it complicate tins even more. compared to a non-christian relnship.. but a christian/non christian mix is as bad.